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		<title>The joy of music</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Jan 2011 02:23:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today a friend sent me a link that brought true joy to my heart. A toddler is conducting a symphony in his lounge room. He anticipates the music and conducts with verve and elan. His enthusiasm is boundless and his &#8230; <a href="http://www.tracingjoy.com/2011/01/31/the-joy-of-music-2/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today a friend sent me a link that brought true joy to my heart. <a href="http://www.choralnet.org/268945.html" target="_blank">A toddler is conducting a symphony in his lounge room</a>. He anticipates the music and conducts with verve and elan. His enthusiasm is boundless and his joy at the end cannot be contained.</p>
<p>At an age when most kiddies are jigging to the Wiggles, his sense of rhythm is well developed and he relishes changes in tempo, adapting his gestures appropriately.</p>
<p>But this pales beside the way he feels the music, eyes gleaming as he anticipates some crashing percussion, then gently gliding through the gentler movements.  Watch and enjoy. It will make your day.</p>
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		<title>Joys of blogging and Mary Poppins</title>
		<link>http://www.tracingjoy.com/2011/01/28/joys-of-blogging-and-mary-poppins/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Jan 2011 11:02:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Not so much, these days. Sad when I read all about the scintillating blogs about Melbourne in the Melbourne Magazine today. Seems people will read about fashion ad infinitum, books (yeah, well I get that) and sightseeing. Spirituality, not so &#8230; <a href="http://www.tracingjoy.com/2011/01/28/joys-of-blogging-and-mary-poppins/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not so much, these days. Sad when I read all about the scintillating blogs about Melbourne in the Melbourne Magazine today. Seems people will read about fashion ad infinitum, books (yeah, well I get that) and sightseeing. Spirituality, not so much. Or, maybe other bloggers are more fun to read? Wittier? more informative? more scintillating? Naaaaaaah, surely not?</p>
<p>So I shall revel in my small but highly select, perceptive and altogether perspicacious readers and tell you that you are supercalifragelisticexpialidocious! Forgive me, but I am suffering the surfeit of seeing Mary Poppins last Sunday afternoon. It was wonderful. Even more wonderful were the faces of my grandchildren as they gazed at the stage and smiled with eyes like stars. Now that&#8217;s joy by the bucketload.</p>
<p>It is a truly marvelous show. Sparkling with wit, great songs, staging is fantastic. Altogether a 5 star theatrical experience. Wonder how long it will take for the littlies to think another theatrical experience is so wonderful? I still remember my first live musicals. <em>The Pyjama Game</em> with Toni Lamond and  <em>Kismet</em> with Hayes Gordon. I was hooked for life and still love them.</p>
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		<title>The Joys of Cinema</title>
		<link>http://www.tracingjoy.com/2011/01/16/the-joys-of-cinema/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Jan 2011 06:34:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today we have been to the movies. I might have seen a slightly different movie to everyone else, as I took my evening tablets in the am by mistake, and so got an extra dose of the marvelous medications that &#8230; <a href="http://www.tracingjoy.com/2011/01/16/the-joys-of-cinema/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today we have been to the movies. I might have seen a slightly different movie to everyone else, as I took my evening tablets in the am by mistake, and so got an extra dose of the marvelous medications that settles down my brain for the night. However, the movie was so compelling, I didn&#8217;t even fall asleep.</p>
<p>The King&#8217;s Speech is a tour de force. Who would have thought that one could make a compelling movie about a man with a stammer and his speech therapist? Yet it is so much more than that. It is about a man finding his voice and finding a friend. It is about a man so secure in himself that he holds to what experience has taught him in the face of establishment power.</p>
<p>Colin Firth and Geoffrey Rush are both amazing in their roles. Firth is one of my favorite actors and he inhabits the role as if born with a stammer. His fight to regain his voice becomes the equal of any blockbuster where the hero shoots a dozen villains at a time with a souped up machine gun. And Rush&#8217;s Lionel is a well of compassion and empathy, rock solid in his companionship &#8220;under fire.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>The further joys of Patricia</title>
		<link>http://www.tracingjoy.com/2011/01/15/the-further-joys-of-patricia/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Jan 2011 09:21:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Having made a resolution to do better with the blog this year, but absolutely shattered when I think of Robin McKinley&#8217;s blog (author of Pegasus). Robin has such a distinct, wry, individual voice, I sat down to blog and every &#8230; <a href="http://www.tracingjoy.com/2011/01/15/the-further-joys-of-patricia/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having made a resolution to do better with the blog this year, but absolutely shattered when I think of Robin McKinley&#8217;s blog (author of Pegasus). Robin has such a distinct, wry, individual voice, I sat down to blog and every thought that has entered my head about blogging was deleted by the evil genie that dwells in my brain.</p>
<p>So I thought I&#8217;d update you on Patricia. We nearly lost her between Christmas and New Year when she developed a serious case of pneumonia. Her doctor put her into hospital and a few days later she was a new woman. Home again, she puts me to shame. She irons, yes, irons, cooks (though she did consider meals on wheels for a bit till she decided she was doing OK) and last Tuesday asked us to take her to Bunnings to buy a shovel, hedge clippers, a pruning saw and other sundries. Behind her new flat, she has a lovely garden and is itching to get out there and cut back the geraniums that are running wild, pull out the dead roses and generally get it in order. We all decided discretion was the better part of valour and no one asked how she would manage a shovel when she uses a walker to walk! But she did say if she couldn&#8217;t manage it she&#8217;d ask someone to do her digging for her. Gotta love such optimism at an age when many people won&#8217;t even buy green bananas.</p>
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		<title>Merging Blogs</title>
		<link>http://www.tracingjoy.com/2010/12/22/merging-blogs/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Dec 2010 13:24:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It seems a bit silly trying to write two blogs when I don&#8217;t keep up properly with either. So as my Windows Live blog platform is being migrated to WordPress anyway, I have decided to re-post some of Ageing to &#8230; <a href="http://www.tracingjoy.com/2010/12/22/merging-blogs/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It seems a bit silly trying to write two blogs when I don&#8217;t keep up properly with either. So as my Windows Live blog platform is being migrated to WordPress anyway, I have decided to re-post some of Ageing to Perfection&#8217;s posts here. When I came to think about it, finding the joy in ageing is just another aspect of finding  joy in the everyday. Ageing to Perfection tended to have a lighter tone, apart from the odd rant, but I am going to relax more and just see what falls off the tips of my fingers. So here is a story about my Mum.</p>
<p><a rel="WLPP;url=https://kskiea.blu.livefilestore.com/y1mI08LdKpsLBDnNhkY-9Ctmi609EJTctDTS-ah7AMw0tIjr2CwKry4smgb9H1GA5BRMXu_b6HGDRmIjDOmjB7TrVE_TZSWDzWJUsXSKPUCTsYTOeq-HrXlpO1sD_stjQNDW0GeAhLLEi8Qb5Iuz7gA-Q/Pat's%20wedding%201.jpeg?psid" href="https://kskiea.blu.livefilestore.com/y1mI08LdKpsLBDnNhkY-9Ctmi609EJTctDTS-ah7AMw0tIjr2CwKry4smgb9H1GA5BRMXu_b6HGDRmIjDOmjB7TrVE_TZSWDzWJUsXSKPUCTsYTOeq-HrXlpO1sD_stjQNDW0GeAhLLEi8Qb5Iuz7gA-Q/Pat%27s%20wedding%201.jpeg?psid"></p>
<div id="attachment_160" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 346px"></a><a><img class="size-full wp-image-160" title="My Mum Pat" src="http://www.tracingjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/2006_1227dub0018.jpg" alt="Pat Monaghan" width="336" height="435" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Mum</p></div>
<p>Though it really isn&#8217;t funny, we are LOL at our place as my Mum, just  turned 90, just failed her assessment for household assistance for the  frail aged. She has a bad foot and is often in pain, and she hoped for  some government assistance with heavy cleaning and so on. It didn&#8217;t help  that the day the assessor arrived unannounced, that Mum had a boiler of  soup on the stove. She doesn&#8217;t need help to shower herself and so she  failed the assessment for any government help. When she tried to explain  that she&#8217;d had surgery on her foot and it hadn&#8217;t worked and she was in  chronic pain she was told tartly, Surgery doesn&#8217;t come under the  guidelines! So while what I think about a government refusing assistance to a very  elderly pensioner, which is miles cheaper than having to support her in a  nursing home (where she would qualify for support) is unprintable, it  is marvelous that she still enjoys to cook and bake. Loves to make us  soup for when we visit and still does her own washing and ironing! She&#8217;s  a marvel. So keep on failing Mum and I hope to God you passed the genes  onto me.</p>
<p>An update on that story. Mum is still managing at home but has been really sick. Terrible respiratory infections at the moment and Mum&#8217;s has gone onto her chest. She has had the stuffing knocked out of her with having to move apartments because of the rebuilding program at her retirement community, but mostly because her beloved sister fell and was badly injured. She is now in respite care, after a spell in hospital, then rehabilitation. Nevertheless, when we visited today, Mum was sharply dressed, had soup out ready for Paul for his lunch and was enjoying watching the baby sparrows knocking at her back door hoping for more crumbs. Go Mum.</p>
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		<title>The Joy of Music</title>
		<link>http://www.tracingjoy.com/2010/11/11/the-joy-of-music/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Nov 2010 05:44:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[02 Irish Love Again, I have been dilatory with this blog. It&#8217;s not so much too busy, as too tired if I am busy. Living in Fibromyalgia land will do that to you. Lately there has been a lot on &#8230; <a href="http://www.tracingjoy.com/2010/11/11/the-joy-of-music/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>02 Irish Love Again, I have been dilatory with this blog. It&#8217;s not so much too busy, as too tired if I am busy. Living in Fibromyalgia land will do that to you. Lately there has been a lot on the boil. Updating the database for our charity, preparing our fundraisers for this year, doing the final edit on my book chapters. . .But I have noted some topics in search of a blog about joy, and one of them is music. I have eclectic tastes: Mozart to fall asleep by, sooth fretful babies, or to cheer me up as the occasion requires. Mark Knopfler&#8217;s <em>Screenplaying</em> is a perennial favorite and playing as I type.  Then there&#8217;s Eric Bogle, David Hobson and Anthony Warlow, Mandy Patinkin (especially his role in <em>The Secret Garden)</em>, Eva Cassidy, Mary Black, Greg Tamblyn, Billy Joel to play piano with, Sarah Brightman singing Andrew Lloyd Weber &#8211; need I go on.</p>
<p>I love it&#8217;s power to sooth the nerve endings one minute and have you up dancing the next. Ditto with laughing and crying. So today it&#8217;s thank God for the music.</p>
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		<title>The Joys of Grasswidowhood</title>
		<link>http://www.tracingjoy.com/2010/09/16/the-joys-of-grasswidowhood/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Sep 2010 08:26:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The past few days, HHWLTBO* has been away. It&#8217;s not that I don&#8217;t miss him, and all that he does about the place, but there are simple joys in occasionally walking to the beat of one&#8217;s own drum, especially when &#8230; <a href="http://www.tracingjoy.com/2010/09/16/the-joys-of-grasswidowhood/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The past few days, HHWLTBO* has been away. It&#8217;s not that I don&#8217;t miss him, and all that he does about the place, but there are simple joys in occasionally walking to the beat of one&#8217;s own drum, especially when the term is finite. Yes I have to get and up and feed the cats each morning, but I should get keep regular hours anyway. Discipline is imperative with my sleep disorder, but sadly, she herself is often disordered, if not AWOL. But to do some messages and know that I can window shop and browse on the way home. OK, I did buy something for some of the grandchildren, and a gift for a friend and glasses for the kitchen**, but it&#8217;s that feeling of having all the time in the world.*** And it&#8217;s quiet at home and the TV doesn&#8217;t go on till about 7 pm and I can play my phone apps with the music on. Small joys, and not to compare with a spouse who is healthy and kindly, but joys nevertheless. Sometimes time to spend is equally as important as money to spend.</p>
<p>* You get to guess the acronym</p>
<p>**That&#8217;s not an indulgence when you&#8217;ve smashed all the old ones!</p>
<p>*** Well, OK yesterday I browsed so long I missed the postie and my medication had to go to the Post Office, and I got caught in the rain there on the way to pick it up and then it wasn&#8217;t there and then &#8230; but they did hear my pleas and refrigerated it for me, so all was well in the end.</p>
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		<title>Joy and Pain: Friends or Enemies?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Sep 2010 08:19:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The last few days I have been thinking of the dynamics between joy and pain. Does pain cause us to lose the contentment, peace or serenity that usually are a part of joy, or does joy transcend pain altogether. Do &#8230; <a href="http://www.tracingjoy.com/2010/09/14/joy-and-pain-friends-or-enemies/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The last few days I have been thinking of the dynamics between joy and pain. Does pain cause us to lose the contentment, peace or serenity that usually are a part of joy, or does joy transcend pain altogether. Do they exist on different planes, so to speak? I don&#8217;t have an answer here. I know that the days I wake in pain and hobble around till I loosen up, I don&#8217;t feel as happy or excited about the day as when I wake up almost pain free and can (metaphorically) spring into the day. I can be crankier those days, and I think crankiness disrupts joy. But I think that it is possible to feel joyful even when in pain. Not just about special events or exciting times, but tracing, as is my goal, the small everyday joys of life. I wish I did it more often, or to a greater degree, but it is possible to feel grateful for my life, blessed by people who care, appreciating a warm heat bag or the gift that comes with Panadol Osteo. Warm winter sun coming through the window and gilding the room with rainbows from the crystals in the window. I&#8217;d prefer to be pain free, and not needing to work towards this goal at all, but if that isn&#8217;t the case, especially during winter and the spring allergy season, then it&#8217;s worth aiming to remember the everyday joys.</p>
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		<title>Joy is a Cuddly Cat (or two)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Sep 2010 05:56:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Joy is a cuddly cat, and I have two of them. Australian Mist is their breed, and they were bred to be companion cats. We live in an apartment several floors up, so it is great to have cats that &#8230; <a href="http://www.tracingjoy.com/2010/09/12/joy-is-a-cuddly-cat-or-two/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joy is a cuddly cat, and I have two of them. Australian Mist is their breed, and they were bred to be companion cats. We live in an apartment several floors up, so it is great to have cats that would rather follow us around (when not eating or sleeping or teasing each other) than go outside and roam. They are larger than average cats and should ideally conform to the look of a small jungle cat. Burmese for friendliness (50%) Abyssinian for brains (25%) and Tabby for wide gene pool and good mothering (25%). Both our cats are pretty, but Princess, our female, is a real charmer, though rather a one woman girl. Cream, with caramel markings and emerald green eyes. She is the brains of the outfit. Djindi (pronounced Jindee) is the brawn. Much bigger than Princess, he is everybody&#8217;s friend. If you&#8217;ll pat him, he&#8217;s yours. They can no longer sleep on our bed, as 7 kg of cat landing on your chest at 5 am and nibbling your nose does not go down well in our household. Did I mention Djindi likes his food? As a baby, he slept curled around my neck. Sadly, he hasn&#8217;t woken up the fact that he&#8217;s grown! When they were kittens, my eldest granddaughter was just starting to crawl. They&#8217;d often play with her toys too.  One day she was trying to crawl and carry a soft toy at the same time. She kept falling over. She saw the cats and you could see the light bulb go on. Next thing you know, she grabs the towelling toy between her teeth and takes off in hot pursuit of the cats. <img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-142" title="Princess and Djindi (rear)" src="http://www.tracingjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/DSC02811-608x456.jpg" alt="" width="608" height="456" /></p>
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		<title>Joy is a Very Small Door</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 06:36:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kim</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was sitting in a huge space, like a Museum space or Gallery, but it was enormous. Higher walls than any real Museum I have ever seen. Architecture was stark. Grey stone walls, flat stone, regular, all angles and straight lines. All the lighting was indirect. I don&#8217;t remember feeling cold but in hindsight, I should have, as it feels like a cold rainy day without a warm fire in strange. Strange, as I knew I was in Hell. No fiery pits, no demons, no drama. Just grey people hurrying, faces down, eyes averted. Busy but not lively, urgent but not excited. I watched from a seat on a podium with steep stones steps. I figured there had to be a way out. Huge ceiling height rectangular archways led to different rooms. There were signs, but somehow I knew I couldn&#8217;t trust them. All roads might lead to Rome but no [obvious] doorways lead out of hell. I also knew I&#8217;d never find it if I sought outright, looked at it full on. So I sat and mused as I wondered where to go next. Then I saw it. In the wall almost opposite to me, I could see a door in the brickwork, only visible in a trick of the light. A small door in this cavernous space. Quietly I walked to the wall and touched the door. A moment&#8217;s hesitation. Would there be something outside, or was this just another cold frustration Hell served up on a daily basis? But hope was like a physical presence. The door swung open. I stepped though the feet deep wall. When I stepped though into colour, and warmth, birdsong and waterfalls, I felt like I&#8217;d returned to Paradise. Then I woke up. Almost like being back in Hell again. I am sure that dream owed a great deal to the Kylie Chan novels I have been reading, where Hell is the Asian Variant. In that tale of balanced Yin and Yang, it is less about good and evil and more about balance. Even demons can be redeemed and there is a path out of Hell for those who earn it. Indeed, even virtuous souls go to Hell for Judgment and if found worthy, live on Hell&#8217;s Celestial plane until rebirth. Yet it was a wonderful feeling to have found, even momentarily, the key to peace and joy. moment.</p>
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